This post is dedicated to my friend Renu, who passed away in February 2011. She taught me how to make the most delicious coriander chutney two years ago and my life has never been the same.
Her golden bangles arrived at my door – they travelled first class gently jingling on slim hands with perfectly manicured fingernails. Her singsong voice, full of a dimpled and cheeky smile called out, ‘Ozoz’. And finally seconds later, our faces connected.
She walked into the living room that weekday afternoon in May when I gloried in having a week off work. Her arms were laden with the best gifts a friend can offer – food. Pots and jars and bowls, I was excited beyond words. She’d just finished cooking up a storm for a banquet she was hosting at hers – Chicken Tikka, lamb rogan josh, pilau, and a small sack of cooked but frozen Samosas purchased from a trusted, authentic Indian restaurant. To accompany the samosas, she brought a small bowl of coriander chutney. I was intrigued by the way it looked – very green and incredibly fragrant.
I didn’t know where to start – a little bit of this, a touch of that and a dip of the other. Till I ‘met’, officially met Mr Coriander Chutney. And don’t ask me why a tasty dip’s a he. My plate is piled high but it is the Coriander chutney that sets itself apart, from Sharwoods Green Label mango chutney, from Patak’s lime pickles. And it did so by virtue of its herbaliciousness. Herby and delicious.
And so in one dip and I was blown away. It was herby with fresh flavours from mint, hints of green citrus from the coriander, a whiff of heat from green chillies and grated ginger, perfectly salted and sweetly balanced with some sugar. Once she explained how it was made, I was further perplexed. Too easy, I said to myself. So good and so quickly made.
Of course our friendship was sealed. She told me she sometimes added yogurt to the dip to cool it down. And so do I sometimes.
Other times, I stir it into mangoes and make a simple slaw – proclaimed by me as the best thing I’ve made, this year!
Or sweet corn.
We were neighbours as well, till her family moved away at the end of January 2011. We had plans of visiting them in Belgium, only round the corner from us but all that talk was quashed when she took ill suddenly, two days into their stay in Belgium. She suffered multiple strokes as a result of a terminal illness. In the first week , I cried non-stop. The difficult week I had at work became inconsequential the minute we got the phone call. My friend, unbelievable. How was that possible? I’d seen her 4 days ago when they came round to say goodbye. We hugged and kissed and laughed and even joked. She said ‘You’ll have to come see us in Beligium’, to which I responded ‘Renu, ha. We were neighbours for 3 years and we hardly saw each other, is it now that you’re moving two hours away that we’ll see each other daily?’ We all laughed. Exchanged hugs. And the kids too. Her 7 month old daughter was in the car and her 7 year old son, laughing with my girls. And then they were gone, it was getting late…..
I cried for a month, everyday. I couldn’t believe it. She’d just had the daughter she’d been praying for after 5 years. Her husband had a new job, a promotion. She was going to live in the city of diamonds (Antwerp). I don’t recall crying this much in 2001 when my dad died, only a month after I returned from a 3-year stint studying in the UK. I felt and still feel shattered. She was so young, in her late 30s, she made me laugh with her dark silken black hair and when I ran out of Tandoori spice, she was the one who I went to begging…and she offered me a jar. I still cry for what could have been. That she knew she was dying. The pain her family goes through and how much we miss her.
But I know that there is hope and that we can’t begin to unravel the mysteries of life. I am willing to let go and trust in God for her, for us, that everything will be well.
Till then, everytime I make this chutney I will think of her and say a prayer.
Bye Renu. Bye
Blog-checking lines: Jami Sorrento was our June Daring Cooks hostess and she chose to challenge us to celebrate the humble spud by making a delicious and healthy potato salad. The Daring Cooks Potato Salad Challenge was sponsored by the nice people at the United States Potato Board, who awarded prizes to the top 3 most creative and healthy potato salads. A medium-size (5.3 ounce) potato has 110 calories, no fat, no cholesterol, no sodium and includes nearly half your daily value of vitamin C and has more potassium than a banana!
Mandatory Items: To make any type of potato salad – hot or cold – that is healthy and delicious. We’d love to see all kinds of ethnic and cultural variations!
Indian-spiced potato salad
Ingredients
600g waxy potatoes, peeled and left whole
3 tablespoons unsalted butter, softened
1 teaspoon cumin seeds, just crushed
1 heaped teaspoon mustard seeds
Pinch of tumeric powder
1 tablespoon white wine vinegar
1 cup mixed vegetables (carrots, corn, peas), cooked
Salt and pepper, to season
1 spring onion, sliced (both white and green), optional1/4 cup flaked almonds, toasted 1/4 cup raisins Coriander-mint dressing (recipe below) Coriander leaves, to serve, optional
Directions
Put potatoes in a pan and cover with cold water and a pinch of salt. Bring to the boil and then turn down heat to simmer.
While potatoes boil, heat butter in a small pan and put in the crushed cumin and mustard seeds. Let heat up slowly, till mustard seeds start to fizzle and pop. Remove from heat, add a pinch of turmeric powder and the white wine vinegar, stir well. Set aside.
Test potatoes for doneness, using a sharp knife. When cooked, strain off water and cut the potatoes into smaller pieces, while hot. Pour over the butter and vinegar mixture and the cooked vegetables and gently toss to combine. Check and adjust seasoning to taste. Alternatively, you could make a platter of the potatoes, veggies, raisins, nuts and everything else….and ‘build-your-own’.
Just before serving, top salad with flaked almonds, raisins, spring onions and coriander leaves.
Serve with the coriander-mint dressing.
Coriander-mint dressing
Ingredients
50 g fresh coriander leaves, washed
25 g fresh mint leaves, washed
1 – 2 garlic cloves, without skin
1 small green chili pepper
1 teaspoon sugar
Salt, to taste
4 tablespoons natural yogurt, or more (I used Turkish yogurt, similar to Greek yogurt)
Directions
Place all ingredients (except the yogurt) in a mortar & pestle, blender or food processor and make a paste.
Stir in the yogurt and adjust sugar and salt, to taste
Refrigerate till ready to serve
Thank you Jami for creating the perfect opportunity to pay a dear friend tribute. X X X[wpurp-searchable-recipe]Indian-spiced Potato Salad with the Daring Cooks – – – [/wpurp-searchable-recipe]
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What a tragic loss! I am so sorry for the pain and agony you may have suffered. You have truly celebrated your friendship and your friends spirit by writing this beautiful post and something that you got from her. In sad or happy times food can connect us with people and brings us closer. Thank you for sharing this.
You brought Renu to life for your readers. She sounds as if she were a lovely lady. I am sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how it feels.
This is a beautiful tribute and it brought tears to my eyes. You are obviously inspired by your mutual love of each other.
Renu sounds like a very special person and I am sure she would have loved this tribute.
I just finished making a potato salad before I read this post otherwise I would have dashed out and collected all of the ingredients. Needless to say, I will be making it soon. What a delicious sounding salad and sauce.
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I am sorry for your loss, dear friends make us better human. A wonderful tribute to a special person. the flavros, picture and words I am sure would bring a smile to her face. sending you warm hugs my friend!
sweetlife
ps. congrats on chef alex featuring your salad!
Thank you for your warm wishes and heartfelt comments. I love you guys……
Oz, my dear…I also cry for your loss of a friend…so young…so sad. I too had a friend that went away far too soon…great tribute.
I’m so sorry for your sad loss, Oz… xxx
I cannot think of a better way to honor a friend than with food. This is an amazing potato salad. She smiles down upon you.
My deepest sympathy to you.
Velva
How absolutely crushing, the lost of a friend, the lost of all that you missed out on. A beautiful tribute for your friend from a beautiful person.
Great tribute to your friend. RIP
Love your potato salad (I also usually use waxy potatoes for this type of dishes)
Fantastic spicy potatoes. Great tribute to your friend.
Beautiful Oz, I’m so sorry for you loss. What a wonderful way to pay tribute to your friend & the grief you’ve been enduring. Hugs to you xx
you have glorified the humble potato
Oh my dear friend…what a beautiful post. Such a lovely tribute to your sweet friend. My heart just broke as I read this. I know the pain that her family is going through, and I wish that I knew how to take it all away. Thank you for sharing her story with us…and for also sharing these wholesome recipes. You are a blessing.
Soooooo sorry that your friend has passed on. it’s lovely that her memory continues with you through this lovely recipe.
My dear Ozoz, I’m crying with you, aching for your loss, for the agonies her family must be in. XO Wishing you comfort and somehow, much joy as you remember this amazing woman and the light she brought into your life. XO
Thank you for sharing the intimacy of your friendship and your memories with us. Beautiful.
What a wonderful dish and tribute to your dear friend. Thanks for sharing your heartfelt story with us.
So sad. If we only knew that it was the last time we would see someone. A lovely tribute to your friend Ozoz.
I am very sorry for your loss! thank you for sharing your story with this recipe. you have an amazing talent with light and photography! great work!
You have written a lovely tribute to your friend, and have those delicious memories of her every time this wonderful chutney is made.
I am so sorry for your loss 🙁 Its so hard when someone young passes away so suddenly, makes you question your own life, and makes each day so much more precious.
Your salad looks gorgeous, and like you, I love coriander chutney… so I will definitely have to try it out your way.
That is so sad and yet a beautiful tribute. I’m left with a lump in my throat.
I love everything that’s going on in this flavorful potato salad!
What a beautiful post. I, too, am a huge fan of coriander chutney and will be tucking that recipe away into my files. I will think of you and your friend each time I use it! Thank you!
Ozoz – What a heartbreaking post, I am so sorry for your loss. How lovely though that your friend left you with such fine memories and such glorious food. Thank you for sharing both with us. – S
Oh Ozoz, what a bittersweet post, so filled with love and joy and sadness. It’s a wonderful tribute to somebody who clearly meant a lot to you – I love that yo will remember her every time you make the dishes she taught you to make. Hugs from London.
What a loving and lovely tribute to your precious friend. And, once again, more lovely photo’s, thanks.
Ozoz,
It’s been a while since I visited you and today when I saw your post at Google Reader, I had to visit you. I am sure that Renu will stay alive in your heart. May she rest in peace and may God care for her precious family.
Thank you for sharing the recipe of this healthful warm salad.
What a beautiful post, and a fitting tribute to a dear friend. Your potato salad looks delicious and the coriander mint dressing makes it all the more interesting. Great job and beautiful pictures.